Of course some Aries men will be just looking to get you into bed and if you are OK with that, then fine. However, while you may think you are going to have a “no strings attached” fling, it may not necessarily turn out that way.
You see Aries Man is VERY difficult to read.
Deep down he is looking for that special someone with whom to spend his life. But at the same time Aries Man loves the thrill of the chase.
You won’t seduce Aries Man by making it easy for him!
Do not, under any circumstances, make it easy for Aries Man. Or he may just vanish.
If you make yourself too available for The Ram, he will quickly lose interest. The best way to seduce Aries Man is to make him feel he has to work to get you.
He wants someone who will stand up to him, without being a total pain in the neck. However, it’s a fine balancing act to allow him to have the upper-hand at times, while keeping him on his toes.
Do not give into his intentions too easily. However, at the same time don’t play too hard to get.
Let him chase you for a while, let him catch you and then make him chase you some more!!
This means that playing the waiting game is crucial. Do not even be tempted to overwhelm him with texts, messages or emails, which will put him off. Aries Man is totally turned off by needy, clingy women.
The ideal partner for Aries Man will be someone who will challenge him, while still coming across as feminine but strong.
What turns on Aries Man?
Aries the Action Man likes to be constantly on the go and try out new things.
He is attracted to women who are impulsive, aggressive and a bit impatient. However, he too can be impatient and doesn’t like to be left waiting.
While you need to stand up to the Aries Man and not back down too easily, do not place obstacles in his path unnecessarily.
Expect Aries Man to be argumentative and competitive. He loves a challenge but he hates to lose. That’s not to say you should let him win though!
The ancient science of astrology, unlike the modern sciences of biology, physics and chemistry, puts the individual at the centre of the universe. Astrology is a science based on the belief that the makeup, or “character” of each individual is determined at the moment of birth.
Astrologers believe that by analysing one’s natal or birth chart it is possible to determine an individual’s purpose in life, their talents, as well as positive and negative characteristics.
So, who are you Aries and what do the stars have in store for you?
STOP! Are you SURE you are an Aries?
Born on the cusp?
If you were born on the day the Sun moved into a new sign then you were born “on the cusp”. For example in the year I was born the sun moved into the next star sign, just two hours before my birth. Are you absolutely sure that you are an Aries? Or are you really a Pisces or a Taurus?
If you were born “on the cusp”, (ie around the 20th March or 20th April) see this article about Cusp Signs to check exactly which star sign the sun was in on the day you were born.
Read on to discover Aries Man and Aries Woman, but first…….
Are You In Love With An Aries Man?
Is Aries Man Hard To Understand?
As a Gemini, I get on pretty well with Aries men and even had a short fling with one once! However, The Ram is a pretty complex character and is strong to the point of selfish. He knows what he wants and he likes to get it.
Born on the Cusp with Taurus, the Bull in me clashed with the Ram and it was soon over.
Introducing Aries – “I am”
March 20 – April 20
Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac and its symbol (or glyph) represents the Ram, the leader of the flock.
In Western Astrology, Aries is considered to be a “masculine”, positive and extrovert sign, along with the other five odd-numbered signs of the Zodiac: Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius.
Aries is also the first sign of spring, the season of new beginnings, enterprise and energy.
The Story of Aries the Ram
The constellation of Aries
The Zodiac sign of Aries was named for the constellation of the same name, which in Greek tradition is also called “The Ram”. The story associated with this constellation is that of the golden ram that rescued Phrixus, taking him to the land of Colchis.
In Greek mythology, Phrixus was the son of Athamus, king of Boiotia, and Nephele, the Goddess of the Clouds. Phrixus and his twin sister Helle were hated by their stepmother, Ino, who plotted to get rid of the twins by roasting all of Boiotia’s crop seeds so they would not grow.
Frightened of famine the farmers consulted the local oracle for assistance. Ino bribed them to lie and tell the others that the oracle required the sacrifice of Phrixus and Helle.
Before they could be killed Phrixus and Helle were rescued by a flying ram with a golden fleece, that was sent by Nephele, their natural mother. During their flight Helle fell off the ram and drowned in the sea then known as the Dardanelles, which was renamed the Hellespont.
Her brother survived the journey to Colchis, where King Aeëtes, the son of the Sun God Helios, took him in and treated him kindly, giving Phrixus his daughter, Chalciope, in marriage. In gratitude, Phrixus sacrificed the ram to Zeus and gave the king the golden fleece of the ram, which Aeëtes hung in a tree in the holy grove of Ares.
Phrixus and Chalciope had four sons, who later joined forces with the Argonauts. The oldest was Argos, who built the ship the Argo.
The ruling planet of Aries
Aries is ruled by the planet Mars, which represents energy, sexual drive, anger, self-assertion and aggression.
Famous people born under the Zodiac sign of Aries
Do you identify with any of these….
Sarah Jessica Parker – 25 March
Vincent Van Gogh – 30 March
Al Gore – 31 March
Colin Powell – 05 April
David Cassidy – April 12
Thomas Jefferson – 13 April
Charlie Chaplin – 16 April
Freddie Ljungberg – 16 April
Victoria Beckham – 17 April
Adolf Hitler – April 20
Aries is a Fire Sign
The Zodiac is divided into four Elements: Earth, Air, Fire and Water, which represent the four basic modes of being. Signs that share an Element are generally regarded to be harmonious with each other.
The Element of Aries is “Fire” which it shares and is compatible with Sagittarius and Leo.
The Element of Fire symbolises the primitive urge to live and the creative inspiration to find a suitable outlet for one’s energy. It represents enthusiasm, faith, spontaneity, intuition and idealism.
Public Domain Image: The Aristotelian Elements
The Qualities of Aries
The signs of the Zodiac are also divided into Qualities: Cardinal, Fixed and Mutable and signs that share a Quality are generally regarded to be hostile to each other.
The Quality relates to the basic temperment of an individual, who will have a prevailing identifying characteristic that is rarely altered through life – nor does it need to be. Each of these Qualities views the world very differently, their reactions to stimuli are different so that any action they take will be different too.
The Quality of Aries is “Cardinal”
A “cardinal sign” (also called by older astrologers a moveable sign) is a sign of the zodiac that initiates a change of temperate zone season when the Sun makes its annual passage into them.
The word “cardinal” originates from the Latin word for “hinge,” and these signs are considered forceful and dynamic, initiating action and providing leadership.
However, on the other hand, cardinal signs can be controlling, inconsiderate, stubborn, selfish and demanding, as they are sure that their way is best and that others should follow.
Cancer, Libra and Capricorn are also Cardinal signs and are therefore less likely to be compatible with Aries.
Arians are forceful and possess huge energy. If they fail at anything they will simply pick themselves up and start all over again. They have good communication skills and find it easy to join in conversations and take them over!
Their curiosity urges them on. Those born under the starsign of Aries have leadership potential.
The negative side of Aries
What’s to loathe about Aries?
Arians can be very impatient when situations and others involved in them do not proceed as quickly as they would wish. They can resent others in authority, despite wanting to be leaders themselves.
Arians put their own survival above everyone else and a lot of their conversations can begin with “I”, which can annoy people. Arians need to appreciate that other people matter as well.
What would you be good at Aries?
Arians make good athletes and climbers, doctors, explorers. By exploration this can mean new ideas as well as uncharted territory, which these days can involve travelling into space!
Arians also make good members of the armed services (army, navy and airforce) and also leaders in politics and industry.
Possible medical weaknesses of Aries
Aries governs the head and brain
Arians can be prone to headaches, particularly migraines, sunstroke, neuralgia and depression.
Indigestion and nervous disorders are also a threat and the Arian rashness, impetuosness and sometimes over-the-top physical commitment can make them accident and injury prone.
Aries Lucky Number is 9
(also known as The Novena)
Aries shares the Lucky Number 9 with Scorpio. Nine is one of the three mystical numbers (the others being three and five).
The Number 9 represents:
society and completion
the brotherhood of man
the common good
Aries lucky colour: Red
The colour associated with the planet Mars
The lucky colour for Aries is crimson or deep red and is the colour associated with its ruling planet Mars. Red has a stimulating effect, but the Arian needs to be careful because it can be irritating to the eye.
Red should never be worn by an Arian trying to patch up a quarrel or when tact or a compromise is needed. However, if faced with a situation that demands courage and energy, the colour red can act like a charm.
Red represents life and vitality and has always been the symbol of love, fire, blood and infatuation. Basically, it represents strong emotions rather than cerebral thinking.
Negative qualities of red: Defiance; aggression; visual Impact; strain
Arians prefer bold and bright colours which have assertive undertones. In addition to red, black is a particular favourite with its influence of power but Arians also tend to respond well to the calming colour of indigo, which helps calm their exuberant fieriness.
Other favourable colours: Pink, orange, white, yellow, royal blue, navy blue, bright brown and variegated colours
Unfavorable colours: green, grey, faded colours
Diamonds are the lucky gem for Aries
The Starstone for Aries
The lucky gem for Arians born in March is the bloodstone, which they share with Pisceans born in March.
The lucky gem for Arians born in April is the diamond, which they share with Taureans born in April.
Aries on holiday
Suggested vacation for Aries
Arians are energetic souls, who enjoy being in control so if they are driving to the mountains or elsewhere they need to be the one behind the wheel. When they do arrive at their destination they want to test their rugged and competitive skills at rock-climbing or sky-diving.
Discover how to make an Aries Man fall in love with you!
This article contains important tips on how to love an Aries Man or Woman.
Aries men and women radiate charm and can be hard to resist. Arians frequently treat love as a game and the opposite sex as an opponent to be conquered.
Those born under the Zodiac Sign of The Ram, thrive in the perfect relationship, becoming more loving, understanding and sensuous as things develop.
However what star signs are the most compatible for Aries? Who makes the best partners for these very strong characters?
How to Love an Aries Man
Peter Pan with a temper!
Forceful, direct, adventurous and virile, Aries Man is often hard to resist. He seems to generate excitement wherever he goes but he can be fickle.
Aries Man enjoys the chase and loves to sweep a woman off her feet. Once he has captured a heart he may lose interest and move on to his next conquest.
The relationship may not last long, but while it does, you will have a man filled with energy, adventure, excitement and passion.
Some Astrologers liken Aries Man to a grown up version of Peter Pan – but with a temper!
However, if you want to learn how to deal with the famous Aries temper, then read on……
If you want to learn how to love an Aries man, then accept that he is always wanting to be doing something and loves to try out new things. However, he can be prone to tantrums as a contrast to being considerate and generous with his time and money.
Life with Aries man can be a roller-coaster but when he loves then he will love with a fiercely passionate love.
This means he will expect the same in return. If he does not get it, then be prepared for an immature sulky, grumpy, foot-stamping Aries fella!
You bet he can get jealous! Aries man loves his freedom and will respect yours. However, the relationship will not work if Aries’ lover is possessive.
Once he decides he has found the love of his life, then you will never have to worry about your Aries Man being unfaithful. Neither will he flirt with anyone else.
He will always make sure you are well looked after and will be your partner for life.
That is assuming that you have the energy to keep up with him!
Aries woman likes to be in charge
Any woman born under the starsign of Aries can be very domineering. A partner who accepts this, can expect her to try to change him.
She will have very definite ideas about what will make the man of her dreams and she will go all out to make him fit that mold.
One of the strongest and most forceful females in the Zodiac, Aries woman can be very determined to get her way.
An Aries Woman can be very faithful, when in love. However, beware her jealousy and possessive tendencies. Insecurity is not the cause of this jealousy, it is her need to be Number 1 in her man’s life.
If her partner is faithful she will be loyal. However, anyone who “plays away” can expect the same in return.
When she feels loved, Aries Woman is understanding and supportive. Make her feel abandoned and she can be shrill and demanding.
What Aries Woman really wants is a long-term relationship. Loving and passionate, she enjoys sharing her life with another.
She is someone who should not be neglected or ignored.
What Zodiac signs make ideal partners for Aries?
Which star signs are the most compatible with Aries?
Aries and Gemini
Gemini is compatible with Aries, as both love to talk and neither sign is reserved.
Leo and Aries
Aries and Leo are both romantic, which makes for a good combination.
Aries and Pisces
Pisces like to be cared for and Aries likes to be in control. So this works well.
Sagittarius and Aries
Aries is probably best paired with Sagittarius as they have the perfect temperament for each other.