5 Reasons Why Capricorn Men Disappear
Have you been left wondering why Capricorn Men disappear?
Capricorn Man Characteristics that may make him pull away
Intelligent Capricorn Man has a lot of self-discipline. Unlike Gemini, he does not flit around from project to project and will never leave a task unfinished.
That is unless he decides that his current project does not have any chance of succeeding!
It may not look like it on the surface. However, underneath that sometimes serious exterior all a Capricorn wants is close companionship and to have someone to love.
The Problem with Capricorn is…
As far as romance is concerned, Capricorn has difficulty opening up. Therefore his ability to establish true intimacy with another human being is hindered.
However, all is not lost!
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Five reasons why Capricorn Men Disappear
1. Capricorns hate dishonesty
Capricorns can be the human equivalent of a truth drug. If Capricorn Man thinks you have been dishonest, then they will work away at you. They will keep on until you can’t help but tell them what they want to know.
Having been married to a Capricorn, I can confirm that this is so true! At times I felt I was being grilled by the Spanish Inquisition!!
If he finds out, or even thinks, a woman has not been entirely honest with him, then Capricorn Man will pull away. No way will he consider a long-term relationship with anyone he believes has been dishonest with him.
2. Why Capricorn Men disappear? Too much drama and emotion!
Most men I know don’t like expressing their emotions and Capricorn Men find it particularly hard to open up.
This mean that you need to ask yourself these questions:
- Am I an emotional person?
- Do I let my emotions get out of control sometimes?
- Will I make a drama out of a crisis?
- Do I brew storms in teacups?
To be honest, as a Gemini, I can get pretty emotional, even more so when I was younger.
Knowing what I know now about Capricorns, I am sure my Sea Goat found it very hard to deal with my emotional side.
He just closed down and appeared selfish and uncaring.
You can find out more about the pairing of Capricorn and Gemini on my page about Capricorn Compatibility.
3. Fail to meet his expectations and Capricorn Man will pull away
Capricorn Man sets very high standards for himself as well as those close to him. He works hard. Capricorns are the workaholics of the Zodiac.
This means that if he thinks you are a slacker and don’t share these ideals, then the relationship will be over before it has really started.
4. Capricorns can’t stand feeling unappreciated
A major Capricorn Man personality trait is that they really need recognition every so often. Failing to feel appreciated by their girlfriend can make sure that her Capricorn Man disappears for weeks, perhaps forever.
However, at times it will seem that what he really wants is his own personal Cheerleader.
5. Being hurt is something a Capricorn will shy away from
Once Capricorn Man is hurt by someone, he will do his utmost to ensure that it never happens again.
Capricorns can often be ruled by logic.
Therefore, if he has been hurt by a woman once, he will be very careful about not sharing his inner feelings and emotions with any future partner he may have.
Providing you are patient with him, he will come around eventually.
However, hurt Capricorn Man and the goat will canter off into the sunset.
Do Capricorn Men come back?
There’s no guarantees that a Capricorn man will come back.
However, the more you learn about him, the more likely you are to get him back!
How to get a Capricorn Man Back
Ask yourself these questions
- Do you both want to try again?
- Can you both compromise?
- Can you become a team, working together at the relationship?
- If you say you will do something, can you do it?
- Can you stand your ground if you disagree with him?
- How about staying positive when he is on a “downer”?
- Can you give him the space he needs at times?