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How To Win The Heart of a Scorpio Man!


All about winning the heart of a Scorpio Man

So, you have met this Scorpio Man. He is intense, stubborn, secretive, mysterious, loyal, controlled, possessive, complicated and, if you have not discovered it yet, he is AMAZING in bed!

You have fallen head over heels in love with this Scorpio Man, but……

  • Are you struggling with his secretive nature?
  • Would you like to be sure it is YOU he wants and not just sex?
  • Are you finding it difficult to understand the dark and sometimes macabre side to your Scorpio Man?
  • Are you wondering exactly how he managed to get under your skin so quickly? (I did say he was intuitive!)

scorpio man personality traits

Let’s be honest here. If you are looking for a laid back, relaxed man to spend the rest of your life with, then you ain’t going to get it with a Scorpio!!

However, if you want to give it a go and try to win over your particular Scorpio, then I have discovered a brilliant book that may help you, with lots of tips and advice to help you understand him.

I bought this book myself, to make sure it has the potential to help anyone looking to win the heart of a Scorpio Man and I have found it fascinating.

Those close to me, and who share my interest in Astrology, will tell you that the intensity of Scorpio Men scares the heck out of me! With what I know, I am someone who would never date a Scorpio.

Although, having said that one of my closest girl-friends is a Scorpio!

I now realise that as a compulsive communicator (I am Gemini after all), it is the secrecy of Scorpio that makes me wary among other things.  This is due to the fact that Scorpios like their privacy and they will always hold something back and we all know that Geminis are the least private of people!

My Scorpio “bestie” is so private that she hates having her photos posted on Facebook. Heck, she is not even on Facebook, that’s how private she is!

It’s easy to assume that for a relationship to be successful, then you should be able to get to know each other inside out. You need to understand that right from the start that this is never going to happen with a Scorpio.

You know the expression “still waters run deep”? Yes, that is Scorpio all over and even Scorpios fail to fully understand themselves, so anyone else has no chance!

This can be a big hurdle for others to accept, as they may feel shut out, particularly as the relationship heats up. But try to understand that this is just part of Scorpios complicated character and they are not deliberately trying to push you out.

Scorpios have lots of drive and determination and will become emotionally invested and committed to everything they put their mind to, including relationships.

This can lead to possessiveness and jealousy with a partner, while at the same time he will do everything he can to protect those they love.

You should find it easy to seduce your Scorpio Man, because sex is very important to him and he could not have a serious relationship without it. They are renowned for being one of the best Lovers of the Zodiac, but be prepared to have to work harder at establishing a relationship based on feelings as well as a physical attraction.

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What more do you need to know so you can win the heart of your Scorpio Man?

Scorpio Man Secrets by Anna Kovach, IS AVAILABLE AS AN INSTANT DOWNLOAD and will help you understand your Scorpio Man better and give you more of a chance of capturing his heart for life.

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Scorpio Man Secrets will show you exactly what makes Scorpios tick and you will gain a better understanding of what is important to them.

Don’t worry, no one is expected to change or undergo a personality transplant. It is just a question of UNDERSTANDING these very complex characters!

Scorpio Man Secrets will give you invaluable, in-depth knowledge about:

  • The Star Sign Scorpio and what drives them to be the way they are
  • Their likes and dislikes
  • What they do and do not need in a partner
  • How to gently go about persuading your Scorpio to trust you
  • The best ways to connect with your Scorpio Man
  • 5 surefire tips to help you get the attention of Scorpio Man
  • How to handle his mood swings
  • How to deal with Scorpio’s vindictive nature – boy can they be vindictive!
  • How to look for the signs that he is totally smitten with you
  • Tricks to making the relationship last
  • Tips on how to “seal the deal” with a Scorpio man
  • What Scorpio is like as a Dad (just in case you are thinking ahead)

Finally, Scorpio Man Secrets has a chapter about the compatibility of every Starsign with Scorpio.

Do you remember me saying at the beginning of this post, that as a Gemini, the private Scorpio will find my chatty, light airyness somewhat of a challenge?

Well, there is a way that a relationship may just work between the Scorpion and The Twins and that is if the Gemini has sewn their wild oats, has matured and is ready for a partner whose more serious side will actually be attractive.

Call it dark balancing out light. However, I think I will stick to my Sagittarian husband!

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Born On The Cusp Love Compatibility – Part 2

Were you Born on the Cusp?

Do you know which Star Sign makes the best Cusp compatibility love match for you?

An amazing  20% of birthdays fall “on the Cusp”, which means there are a large number of the people surrounding you who are not only influenced by one sun sign but TWO!

(If you are not sure what being “Born on the Cusp” means, then read my article all about Cusp Signs, which opens in a new tab, allowing you to easily switch back to this one.

If you already know that you are a “Cusper” and what it means, but you would like toyour true Sun Sign you were born then switch to my Free Birth Chart Calculator, which also opens in a new tab.)

Being born on the Cusp gives us Cuspers a lot more options as far as Astrology Love Compatibility is concerned!

Read on to find out about your Cusp Signs Compatibility

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Scorpio-Sagittarius Cusp Compatibility
Sagittarius-Capricorn Cusp Compatibility
Capricorn-Aquarius Cusp Compatibility
Aquarius-Pisces Cusp Compatibility
Pisces-Aries Cusp Compatibility

Libra-Scorpio Cusp Compatibility

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The Cusp of Drama and Criticism
Air mixes with Water

The exciting natures of the Fire Signs of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius could prove attractive to Libra-Scorpios initially, but if they move too quickly, this Cusp Combination could soon feel unsettled and off balance.

If Scorpio-Libra does not find this too daunting and enjoys the fast pace, without ever knowing what to expect, then great!

The Earth Signs of Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn promise consistency and calm, which Libra-Scorpio find appealing, providing they are not put off by their tendency to be slow to get close. However, the Scorpio side of this Cusp combination, may put off a potential Earth Sign partner because of their intensity.

Fellow Air Signs (Gemini and Aquarius) of the Libra part of the Cusp of Drama and Criticism could have the frustrating tendency to put Libra-Scorpio in the position of having to be the sensible, responsible one. The Air Signs’ tendency to change their minds and plans is not easy to tolerate, but the fact that they are fun to be with may provide sufficient compensation to make a relationship work.

Emotional Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces could actually be a good match. You could find their sometimes awkwardness and shyness somewhat lovable. And these Water Signs will love Scorpio-Libra in return because of it!

Scorpio-Sagittarius Cusp Sign Compatibility

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The Cusp of Revolution
Water mixes with Fire

Of all the Cusp Signs, Scorpio-Sagittarius will enjoy the qualities of Pisces-Aries and Libra-Scorpio. You will love the loyalty of Cancer-Leo, however you may find their dependency suffocating.

The Fire Signs of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius could be a good match as you will enjoy travelling and planning adventures together. Air Signs are curious by nature and Cancer-Leo will share that inquisitiveness with them.

Cancer-Leo Cuspers will find the Earth Signs of Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn steady and reliable and while they will want to know what you think and feel, they may not behave in the thoughtful and sensitive way, which you need in return. You may also find that you will need to “take charge” of most situations.

In the short term romance those born on the Cusp of Revolution could be found with a charming Air Sign (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius), but the inconsistencies of both your’s and their sign may be the undoing of this pairing, despite the fact that you will share a similar sense of humour.

Air Signs are full of ideas and will be great for sounding out about your own ideas, but the Scorpio side of your personality, which can make you both sedate and intense at the same time, will find their liveliness a challenge at times. By the same token, the Air Signs’ liveliness will find this part of your personality equally frustrating.

Sagittarius-Capricorn Cusp Sign Compatibility

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The Cusp of Prophecy
Fire mixes with Earth

Those born on the Sagittarius-Capricorn Cusp, will find an affinity with those also born on the Cusp of Prophecy. Your temperaments will be similar, while not clashing and you will love the fact that you will both like to get things done or get things progressing.

Good relationships can also be found with Aquarius-Pisces. Leo-Virgo could also work well, as long as they do not fuss too much, while with Aries-Taurus you will find yourself getting organised.

Sagittarius-Capricorn will share with Fire Signs (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius) a sense of humour and the need to make a difference to the planet. However, your shared passion will also mean that the argumentative side of your nature can possibly be provoked.

Some of you who have the combination of Earth and Fire will enjoy this sensation and even thrive on the tension it causes, but if you find yourself with someone who is nit-picky and finds fault in the most trivial of things then think twice!

The consistency and reliability of the Earth Signs of Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn will help you relax, while at the same time increasing your confidence and sense of adventure.

Sagittarius-Capricorn will find Gemini, Libra and Aquarius (the Air Signs) amusing and they will certainly keep you on your toes. But will those born on the Cusp of Prophecy be made nervous by their unreliability and tendency to constantly change their minds?

Yes, you will have fun with Air Signs, but just as you feel that you are beginning to understand them, they may just disappear….

Sagittarius-Capricorn can be materialistic (you will love the latest electronic gadgets), which the Water Signs of Cancer, Scorpio and Sagittarius will find fascinating, while sometimes being appalled by your choices. The Water Signs will be very supportive of Sagittarius-Capricorn and will be extremely loyal, even when you get into trouble.

So Capricorn-Sagittarius, be sure to appreciate all this even if Water Signs make you feel like you are a kid sometimes!

Astrology on the Cusp

Sally Cragin

I was born on the Cusp of Taurus and Gemini and in 1996 married a man born on the Cusp of Sagittarius and Capricorn.

The detailed information about “Cuspers” that is contained in Astrology on the Cusp by Sally Cragin has been so enlightening that it has given me a much better insight into not only my soul mate and what makes him tick, but has also given me a much greater understanding of myself. I just wish I had read this brilliant book, many years ago. It would have made such a difference to my own self-awareness and why I felt like two different people all the time!

Did you know that 20% of Birthdays fall “on the Cusp”? Therefore, you are bound to have come across “Cuspers” in your everyday life!

This is the only publication I have found both on and offline that delves deeply into the world of those influenced by two sun signs and what makes them tick. It certainly is unique.

Are you a “Cusper”? Are you in love with someone Born on the Cusp?

Then this book is a must read!

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Capricorn-Aquarius Cusp Sign Compatibility

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The Cusp of Mystery and Imagination
Earth mixes with Air

Capricorn-Aquarius will be most comfortable with Scorpio-Sagittarius and Pisces-Aries. You may also find Virgo-Libra attractive.

This mix of Earth and Air will find that relationships with the Fire Signs of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius are a whole load of fun and building a life together is definitely on the cards. However, be aware that they could also leave you confused and breathless due to their unbounded enthusiasm.

Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, the Air Signs, will help bring out the more fun side of the personality of those born on the Cusp of Mystery and Imagination and they will also help stop you from being too brooding. These are fun signs and they will suit you as long as you are willing to take on the role of decision maker.

The Capricorn in you will crave consistency, which is totally at odds with the Air Signs and can cause issues.

The influence of Capricorn gives you a practical nature, which will appeal to your fellow Earth signs of Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn, as will your love of the comforts in life. You also share the same work ethic.

Reassuring and loving Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) will remind you that it is crucial to be aware of your feelings. Together you will also enjoy all different kinds of entertainment, food and travelling.

Sensitive Water Signs will also be aware of when Aquarius-Capricorn, who are born on the Cusp of Mystery and Imagination, needs to be left alone.

Aquarius-Pisces Cusp Sign Compatibility

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The Cusp of Sensitivity
Air mixes with Water

The element of Air will fuel the Fire of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius and Aquarius-Pisces may find themselves totally bowled over by their interest and their passion. But this could end up making you feel constantly rushed, particularly if your intended is an Aries or a Leo.

Just when you are trying to take a well-earned break from all this intensity, your Fire Sign will be insisting that you “have to”, which may drive you nuts! However, at the same time they are a lot of fun and will help you to be less insular.

The steady Earth Signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn) will appreciate your depth of thought and feelings, even though they do not feel the same way. The problem will be, however, that their deep-seated need for security in the longer term may rankle with your unique, revolutionary spirit. Virgo in particular will fully test the theory that opposites attract!

The light-hearted, and sometime fickle Air Signs (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius) will make good friends to those born on the Cusp of Sensitivity, but they may not be able to give you the depth you crave in a love match.

Always, quick to react, they may not always understand you need to let off steam about something, while not really wanting to do anything about it. Geminis, in particular, may misunderstand this and end up irritating the heck out of you!

The Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) will definitely understand you, Pisces-Aries, as they will understand your independence and quirky characteristics. They are also renowned for their moodiness but will be happy sharing a domestic situation with you, especially Cancer.

But be careful of those Scorpios! Those born in October will probably be better suited to you, but watch out for the famous sting in the tail!

Pisces-Aries Cusp Sign Compatibility

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The Cusp of Rebirth
Water mixes with Fire

For those born on the Cusp of Pisces-Aries, relationships with the Fire Signs of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius will feel right. In particular an Aries partner will have a lot in common with you as far as your temperament is concerned.

Although the impulsiveness of Aries may have you yelling “Slow down!”, while you lag behind trying to keep up with them!

Leo may not be as compatible as the other two Fire Signs, because of their secretive nature and need to be one-to-one so much of the time.

On the other hand, while Sagittarius will be happy to be with you, they are comfortable when you need to be apart. However, they will still need some reassurance from you as they ready for their next adventure.

Pisces-Aries will be a ray of sunshine to the Earth Signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn), who will appreciate how you see the world, your inner depths and your artistic nature.

Be aware though that those born on the Cusp of Rebirth do not always appreciate the values of dependability shared by the Earth Signs and so they may only become a true fit for those who have sown their wild oats and are ready for a relationship that is consistent.

The fun, whirling dervishes that are the Air Signs might make Pisces-Aries feel almost steady and grounded in comparison to Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, but although you may enjoy their Company as friends, anything else could end up making you feel exhausted!

The Water Signs of Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces may make you feel you have a lot in common with them and indeed you do, but these signs will probably end up making you feel too similar. The broodiness and moodiness of the Water Signs will not help you get out of yourself, although they will be loyal.

Cancer should make for a good match – you will understand each other well. However, Aries-Pisces needs to be aware that you may drive your partner insane with your own inconsistencies. And once brought to the boil, Water Signs will continue to simmer long after you have moved on from the argument!

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Born On The Cusp Love Compatibility – Part 1

Born on the Cusp?

Which Star Sign makes the best love match for you?

Did you know that 20% of birthdays fall “on the Cusp”? That means a heck of a lot of the world’s population are not only influenced by one sun sign but TWO!

(Just in case you are not sure what being “Born on the Cusp” involves, then check out this article all about Cusp Signs, which opens in a new tab, so you can easily switch back to this one.

If you already know about Cusp Signs and that you are a “Cusper”, but you want to know under which Sun Sign you were born then switch to my Free Birth Chart Calculator, which also opens in a new tab.)

So, now you know that if you were born on the cusp the articles on this site about with whom you are compatible may not apply to you at all!

Those born on the Cusp will find that they have the potential to be more compatible with more Zodiac Signs than those born under the influence of a single Sun Sign.

Read on to find out about your Cusp Love Compatibility

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Taurus-Gemini Cusp Compatibility
Gemini-Cancer Cusp Compatibility
Cancer-Leo Cusp Compatibility
Leo-Virgo Cusp Compatibility
Virgo-Libra Cusp Compatibility

Aries-Taurus Cusp Compatibility

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The Cusp of Power
Fire mixes with Earth

Aries-Taurus will usually find that those born on the Cusps of Taurus-Gemini and Pisces-Aries can make for a very happy bond as you will share similar values.

Because the influence of Taurus tends to tone down the explosive nature of Aries, you may find it possible to have good relationships with Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. These are all Fire Signs, so this could make for a hot combination that will keep you on your toes!

Relationships with the Earth Signs of Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn run the risk of getting into a “rut” but providing you can recognise it when it happens, then there is the potential to put things right.

You may find that pairing with one of the Air Signs of Gemini, Libra or Aquarius could be extremely exciting to start with. However, their tendency to move onto the “next shiny thing” could really irritate Aries-Taurus.

The moody Water Signs of Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces could turn out to be stable partners in the long run, providing Aries-Taurus is willing to step in and try to lighten their mood by taking these home-lovers out of the house.

Beware! You may find a relationship with Scorpio perplexing and challenging. They never fully open up and this could leave Aries-Taurus feeling excluded and left out.

Taurus-Gemini Cusp Compatibility

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The Cusp of Energy
Earth mixes with Air

The cusp signs of Virgo-Libra and Capricorn-Aquarius may work for Taurus-Gemini and although Cancer-Leo and Pisces-Aries are less likely to work, they are just possible.

Relationships with Fire Signs can be lively and as a result exhausting, so Taurus-Gemini may find themselves worn out as they try to keep up!

Aries, Leo and Sagittarius are Fire Signs but Leo’s need to be the leader may end up clashing with The Cusp of Energy as your stubborness meets their forcefulness head on!

Compatibility may be possible with Virgo or Capricorn, providing they have enough get up and go to keep Taurus-Gemini interested.

Gemini-Taurus will find they have a lot in common with Libra, but in general the Air Signs, which also include Gemini and Aquarius may just be too flighty for the more down to earth nature that Taurus brings to this cusp combination. The mood swings of the Air Signs could just be too exhausting!

The Water Signs of Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces may be a more compatible fit as they will provide a calmer influence. However, those born towards the end of Cancer, nearer Leo, will be less needy emotionally and more enjoyable to be with than a “full-blown” emotional Cancerian!

Gemini-Cancer Cusp Compatibility

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The Cusp of Magic
Air mixes with Water

If Gemini-Cancer is looking for fun, then it might be found with a Fire Sign: Aries, Leo or Sagittarius. However, those born under the Cusp of Magic may find that sharing the spotlight with a Fire Sign is not easy!

Aries will understand where you are coming from, Leo will find you totally fascinating but while Sagittarius may stay awhile, you could find the Archer swiftly galloping off into the distance!

Earth Signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn) may not be able to hold onto the interest of Gemini-Cancer for very long, especially if you are young. They may become more appealing as you get older and get to the stage where you find stability a more attractive relationship ingredient.

The inconsistency of the Air Signs of Gemini, Libra and Aquarius make them unreliable partners for a Cusp Sign that is looking for the kindness and stability desperately needed by the Cancer part of this combination.

The problem is that one minute an Air Sign will be all kindness and understanding and suddenly their switch can flick and they become exactly the opposite! Then while Gemini-Cancer is still trying to rationalise what happened, their partner will have moved on and forgotten all about it.

The tempermentally compatibility of Water Signs, could be just want Cancer-Gemini needs. Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces are well-known for their sensitivity and depth, which The Cusp of Magic will appreciate.

Astrology on the Cusp

Sally Cragin

As someone born on the Cusp of Taurus and Gemini married to a man born on the Cusp of Sagittarius and Capricorn, the information in Astrology on the Cusp by Sally Cragin has been so enlightening and has given me a much better understanding, not only of my soul mate but also myself. I just wish I had read this many years ago as it could have made such a difference to what I thought about me!

Given that 20% of Birthdays fall “on the Cusp”, it is quite likely that you have come across “Cuspers” in your every day life. This book is unique as it is the only publication I have found both on and offline that delves deeply into the world of those influenced by two sun signs and what makes them tick.

If you are a “Cusper”, or in love with someone Born on the Cusp, then this book is definitely for you.

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Cancer-Leo Cusp Compatibility

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The Cusp of Oscillation
Water mixes with Fire

Partnerships with an Earth Sign (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn) may satisfy the need of Cancer-Leos to live the “good life” and, in most cases, they will be happy to allow the Leo influence of this combination to take centre stage, which will make for a comfortable pairing.

The Air Signs of Gemini, Libra and Aquarius are unlikely to provide the security that Cancer Leo needs, so there will need to be a time of adjustment to get used to these flighty people. But if those born under the Cusp of Oscillation can weather this initial period, then this pairing has the potential to be rewarding in the long term.

Of the Water Signs, Cancer will probably make the best fit, or a non-typical Pisces who has their tendency to over-indulge kept under control!

Scorpio, because they do not communicate particularly clearly, may be the hardest to crack because of the Leo Cancer’s overwhelming need to know what the heck is going on ALL the time!

Leo-Virgo Cusp Compatibility

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The Cusp of Exposure
Fire mixes with Earth

Relationships with Fire Signs generally work with Leo-Virgos, providing all parties accept that there may be fireworks sometimes. You will understand each other well and appreciate that these fireworks are a means to clear the air.

The influence of Virgo can complicate matters for the Cusp of Oscillation, but the Fire Signs of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius will help you loosen up.

Partnering with an Earth Sign will be comfortable due to their reliability, but this may not provide the excitement that Leo-Virgo likes to experience.  However, if you have reached a time in your life where stability and comfort are more important, then Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn may be just what you need.

Gemini, Libra and Aquarius will definitely light the fire of those born on the Cusp of Exposure as they always have interesting things to say and places to go. But the inner Peter Pan lurking within Air Signs can lead to irresponsibility and Virgo Leo may find themselves having to be the responsible influence in this partnership.

The understanding nature of the Water Signs of Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces may be appealing at first, but it could lead to irritation.

Leo Virgo likes to be on the go and try something new and won’t want to wait for a Water Sign, as they think things through while sheltering in their comfort zone!

Virgo-Libra Cusp Compatibility

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The Cusp of Beauty
Earth mixes with Air

The Virgo-Libra Cusp sign is one of the most flexible when it comes to astrology love compatibility and can be an excellent match for many Sun Signs. They are thoughful, curious and graceful and will want to find out what they have in common with everyone.

When it comes to other Cusp Signs compatability will be found with Taurus-Gemini and Capricorn-Aquarius.

Dynamic and unpredictable, the Fire Signs of Aries, Leo and Sagittarius may be fun at first as they sweep you off your feet Virgo-Libra, but as you come to realise how unstable they can be, you may start to think twice. However, because Aries is one of your opposite signs, you could feel a strong attraction.

Stability (both emotional and financial) and fun will be found with the Earth Signs of Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn, who share an appreciation of the more finer things in life with Virgo Libra. They will also be comfortable with the more practical side that Virgo brings to this Cusp combination.

The more Libran characteristics will come to the surface in a partnership with a fellow Air Sign. This could lead to indecisiveness, because none of the signs of Gemini, Libra or Aquarius will want to take the lead for fear of causing offence.

The Water Signs will have a calming influence on Virgo Libra when they get overwhelmed or agitated. Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces will be keen on seeing you take some “me time”. In turn those born on the Cusp of Beauty will have a positive influence on the tendency of Libra-Virgo to be moody.

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How Compatible Are You? Free Zodiac Love Compatibility Rating!

Apart from “What’s my Star Sign?”, the other question I am asked the most is “Who am I compatible with?”

Zodiac Love Compatibility is a complex issue, because it is not just dependent on your Sun Sign. When you were born the positions of all the planets plus the Moon, had a huge bearing on not only your personality but also that of your partner – or prospective partner.

If you are not sure of your Sun Sign, then you can find out by entering your date and place of birth in this free Sun Sign Calculator.

It gets even more complicated if you were born on The Cusp, as your personality will be a mix of not just one Sun Sign but two!

What Is Your Love Compatibility Rating?

Here’s a fun free tool that will calculate your compatibility rating. However, this is a very simplified calculator as it is only based on the date of your birth and does not include the time or location.

The calculator will give you an idea about how well you relate to each other and how easy (or hard) you can expect the relationship to be.

My partner and I received a Compatibility rating of 70%, when I tried it out and the following summary:

“Your relationship is smooth, and everything is possible. You simply need to adjust to each other and you can easily do so. It only takes a minimum of warmth and mutual understanding for your couple to function steadily in spite of some rare disagreements. You must turn your marvellous relationship into a success love story because you have all the necessary keys and assets to this end. So, go for it!”

I am Gemini, born on the Cusp with Taurus and my husband is a Sagittarian, born on the Cusp with Capricorn. We have been married 21 years 🙂

Did you try the tool? What was your Compatibility Rating?

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Free Printable Astrology Birth Chart

One of the most common questions I am asked is “What’s my Star Sign?”

For the majority of people with whom I come into contact, it is an easy question to answer. But for some it is not so easy as they were “born on the cusp”, which is the term used to describe the period of transition when the sun moves from one Zodiac Sign to the next.

You can find more information about what being born on the Cusp means, by reading my article about Cusp Signs and then come back here to check exactly which is your Sun Sign and, if you wish, you can print off your free astrology birth chart.

Once your Birth Chart appears, using the navigation bars on the right hand side and bottom of the chart to get it centred on the page, then hover your mouse over the Sun Symbol ☉ to find your true Birth Sign. You can then click on the links in the menus at the top of the screen to find out more about your Sun Sign and your Cusp Sign.

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This Month Sees a Full Moon in Scorpio

The Full Moon in Scorpio – A Time of Heightened Emotion

This May the Flower Moon will be significantly positive for Taureans, Cancerians, Virgos, Scorpios, Capricorns and Pisceans. However, all the other signs will probably find it more challenging.

Full Moons are always times of peak intensity and this month’s union with Scorpio on May 10 will see our feelings become so heightened that everyone will be affected in one way or another as they have the potential to become more critical and tactless. Be aware that sexual relationships often experience difficulty when the Full Moon is in Scorpio.

Since the end of March, energy has been building and the influence of Scorpio will see this accumulation of energy finally released. The result will be deep and profound changes. These changes may take us by surprise at first. The suddenness will be shocking.

Hidden motives will become apparent and secrets will be revealed, but when we really start to think about it we will come to understand that it was meant to be. We will see that the changes are something that are actually a natural development as our lives evolve.

Many close relationships, both personal and business, will come under the spotlight. Loyalty, fidelity and commitments will be questioned. It will be a time for taking stock of what may have been taken for granted and there could be some significant changes.

The Flower Moon is said to be the most sexy and romantic of all the full moons and the combination with the sensual sign of Scorpio has the potential to bring a deluge of drama and intrigue with it. However, a full moon in Scorpio will also provide the opportunity to escape from distractions and try to concentrate on achieving peace and balance.

Beware of extremes of behaviour during this time. There could be a tendency to either overreact or try to bury feelings. Neither is good!

In general, the Scorpio Flower Moon on May 10 2017 is a time for all the signs of the Zodiac to focus on the root causes of issues and decide what to do about them. So what does the Flower Moon have in store for each of the star signs, particularly with regard to romance and relationships?


The Flower Moon in Scorpio will make it challenging for Aries. They will feel off balance while they battle with inner struggles. At times it will feel as though there is a minor disaster waiting for them at every turn.

The Full Flower Moon may make Arians feel uncomfortable, but this will only last for a few days, when they will be able to relax more and take time to plan and make decisions.

This is not a full moon that will have much impact on Aries in matters of love and romance. The focus should be on finance and self-development.


Scorpio lies directly opposite Taurus on the Zodiac wheel, which means that those born under the sign of the Bull will be very affected by the Scorpio Flower Moon.

Do not make the mistake of assuming that this can be a bad thing!

Tauruses should use this time to concentrate on resolving problems in their relationships. They could even decide to walk away from relationships or commitments that no longer fulfil them.

The full moon is a perfect time to purge negativity from our lives, including giving up bad habits.


The Scorpio Flower Moon should be a productive time for Gemini. Time should be spent concentrating on finishing projects and using emotions productively, while not pushing themselves too hard – which is a strong personality trait in many Geminis (including this one).

This could wear us out and lead to an increase in negative energy. Something to watch for!


Cancer is one of the signs that will find positive benefits from the Scorpio Flower Moon. More creativity will come to the surface, which should not be ignored. Instead those born under the Sign of the Crab should use their creativity to the utmost and set about produce something amazing.

This is also the time to assess close relationships. Cancerians have the potential to grow even closer to those they love or, at the opposite end of the scale, they may find themselves ending associations with those with whom they no longer feel a close connection.

However, while all this is going on Cancerians should be careful of their tendency to cause drama as they could stir up unnecessary conflicts.


Fiery Leo could find The Flower Moon in Scorpio an intense time. Their frame of mind will determine whether they are drawn into feeling more passionate or loving or whether their more negative traits of revenge and jealousy will win the day.

For Leos who find themselves feeling emotionally sensitive it is a sign that they need to work on their inner strength and settle issues in the home or with members of their family.


The normally emotionally inhibited Virgo will find that the Flower Moon in Scorpio will make it easier for them to express their feelings. Virgos tend to hide their emotions too much and this is a time when they can unburden themselves and get things off their chests.

During this time Virgoans will be more perceptive. They will see through the words that people use and have a greater understanding of what they actually mean.

This is also the ideal time for Virgos to stay busy, stop procrastinating and finish off all the little projects and loose ends they have been putting off. Just do it!


Librans are constantly looking for balance, peace, and harmony and the Scorpio Flower Moon offers the opportunity for them to get their finances in order. Libra is blessed with good intuition but the Flower Moon might cause them to doubt their normally accurate instincts.

During this time other people’s opinions have the potential to make Librans question themselves or feel insecure. These inner negative thoughts need to be blocked out, so that Libra has a clear mind in order to be able to understand many of the seemingly inexplicable and mysterious events, that could be occurring around them.


While the May Flower Moon is in their sign Scorpio will reap what they sow. So be careful to ensure that the outcomes are positive!

While all the star signs could find this Full Moon intense and challenging, in many different ways, Scorpios will get double the dose and whether the effect is positive or negative, will depend on how they have been in the run up to the Full Moon.

It will go one of two ways and Scorpio will be either rewarded or punished. There’s the potential to make progress with the things about which they are passionate IF they have worked hard at it; or, if they have been uncaring, reckless or lazy then setbacks and delays will be the result.

During this period of intense and extreme emotions Scorpios need to take care not to let the darker side of their personality rule their actions and reactions – or it could come back to bite!


For Sagittarians, the Flower Moon in Scorpio will be a time of self analysis. Old emotions and deeper motivations and things from the past, that are no longer worthwhile holding on to, can be released.

Providing those born under the sign of The Archer can do this letting go, there will be a huge sense of relief as the weight is lifted from them.

However, there’s a word of caution….during this extremely introspective phase Sagittarius should take care at family gatherings, where there is the potential for family issues and problems to be come to the fore and be exacerbated.

Now is not the time for The Archer to be tactless!


Time to get off the fence Capricorn! This is the time to make some choices in several areas of your life in particular.

You can decide to settle outstanding issues with some of those around you or you may simply walk away from a friendship or group.That cause or dream that is on your mind? You could put more energy into it, or let it go.

This is the time to focus on what you would like to achieve in the future, to be sure of getting what you want. The Flower Moon in Scorpio sees a lessening of emotions in Capricorn, giving them the clarity of thinking, which they need to reach for their goals.


The Flower Moon in Scorpio can be either very positive for Aquarius or a total let down. It all depends how they approach it. There is definitely attention to be had, but it might not be the kind of attention they want.

Aquarians should choose their projects wisely and be honest about their motives and intentions, before taking them forward.


The Scorpio Flower Moon has the potential to be a positive for Pisces. There will be opportunities to finish various projects including study or settle legal matters.

If you are living away from home, this will be a time when you could return home.

You may also find yourself passionately defending your position on matters that mean a lot to you, including your beliefs. However, during this period of heightened emotions, Pisceans need to be fully aware and sympathetic of how other people feel too.

Take care Pisces, that you don’t end up in an argument or a few!

How is the May Flower Moon affecting you? Have there been any sudden surprises or shocks in your relationships?

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Taurus Gemini Cusp Signs

Characteristics of those born on the
Cusp of Taurus and Gemini

Cusp dates: May 19 to May 23
nown as: The Cusp of Energy

The combination of Taurus and Gemini results in a youthful go-getter, who is physically strong, clever and communicative. They have tremendous imagination and are very expressive.

This makes them very adaptable, with an ability to get along with others from all walks of life and in many different situations. However, they can run out of steam. They want to be able to “do it all” and this can lead to fatigue because they don’t want to miss out on all the fun and sometimes they just don’t know when to stop.

Taurus and Gemini are both such pleasure-loving signs, that they need to be careful of not overdoing food and drink. They also need to try to be more sensitive to the feelings of others and if they would just learn to stop, take a step back and listen from time to time they would have the potential to be successful.

The negative qualities of each star sign are successfully balanced out by the positive qualities of the other. Taurus is literally bull-headed at times and this is tempered by Gemini’s ability to reason with people. Likewise, the flighty nature of Gemini is balanced out by Taurus’ ability to be persistent and dependable.

On the negative side, Taurus/Gemini can be too materialistic as they look for constant stimulation.

The combination of Taurus and Gemini results in individuals who remain youthful and lighthearted throughout their lives. They are charming and friendly and make natural leaders. They usually have many friends and contacts in all walks of life. They tend to be very successful in what they choose to do.

Please note the “Cusp Dates” given above are general and may vary from this occasionally.


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Aries Taurus Cusp Signs

The Characteristics of those born on
the Cusp of Aries and Taurus

Cusp dates: April 15 to April 24
Known as: The Cusp of Power

If you were born between April 15 and April 18, you are more of an Aries, with a bit of Taurus thrown in. True Aries-Taurus Cuspers will have birthdays on April 19 or 20. Those born between April 21 and 24, will be Taurus with Aries influence.

The Element of Aries is Fire and Taurus is Earth.  Will Taurus douse the Flames of Aries?

Those born on the Cusp of Aries and Taurus are certainly a force to be reckoned with. They are natural leaders, taking charge in the home and at work due to the successful combination of energy from both signs. Aries is compulsive and has an energy, which drives them forward, but they can become bored with a project before it is finished.

This is tempered by the more practical side of Taurus, who will take care of the fine details and is more likely to see the project through. When it comes to achieving their goals, this is one of the strongest combinations of starsigns because they can be so darn persistent.

But this energy can come with negative consequences. Aries and Taurus combined can be forceful and this can result in them being too driven and opinionated. OK, so they probably know they are right, but the Aries-Taurus can be very blunt and they need to make allowances for others’ views and feelings.

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Aries-Taurus Cusp Compatibility

Those born on the Aries and Taurus cusp have the potential for great satisfaction in life, thanks to the great action, that ever on the go Aries brings to the mix and the great will and strength of Taurus.

Please note the “Cusp Dates” given above may vary from this in some years


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Taurus Compatibility

Are you in love Taurus?

Are you and your partner compatible? Will it last?

Taureans are sensible and practical people and this underscores their love lives. Although they enjoy being at home and love a quiet evening in with good food and good conversation, they are romantic and it means a lot to them to have a deep relationship.

Money is important to materialistic Taureans and although they may not exactly shower you with gifts, when they do buy you a gift it will be the best. They can be very direct about their needs and wants and are very passionate.

Taureans need someone who is practical and strong like themselves. If you are looking for love with a Taurus, take it slow and easy. They like to build their relationships on strong foundations that could well last a lifetime.

Taurus is a very affectionate and loyal sign of the Zodiac and Taureans have a lot to give when they find the right person.

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Practical but sensitive!

TAURUS HOROSCOPES MAYAN PRODUCTS iPad MINI CASETaurus Man is very down to earth and is unlikely to sweep you off your feet. Just like Taurus Woman he is looking for stability and security, is practical when it comes to love. He is looking for a longterm commitment.

They may appear to be overtly practical but underneath Taurus Man is very sensitive, but he is very good at hiding it. He may brush off rejection, however, deep down he will be hurting.

Although no Prince Charming, your Taurean Man is romantic but will hesitate to say “I love you”. Faithfull and affectionate, he will love and accept you for who you are.

What more could a girl want?

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Taurus Stretched Canvas PrintsTaurus Woman can appear to be very old fashioned, but dig beneath that “straight” exterior and you may find someone surprisingly seductive. However, she will never be promiscuous or casual about the relationships that matter to her, as she values security and stability.

Being in love brings out the best in a Taurean Woman. She loves to care for those close to her and will be open and loving.

Confident in her own judgement a Taurus Woman will give you her all, but she will expect the same in return.

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Which Zodiac signs make ideal partners for Taurus?

If you are wondering about Taurus Compatibility, Taureans are well matched with Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn and Pisces.

Taurus is compatible with Cancer, who share the quality of loyalty and, like Taureans, they need security.

Virgos share a similar intellect with Taurus and are also home loving.

A Taurus and a Capricorn have strong passions and shared goals.

Pisces and Taurus will share a good physical chemistry and may be attracted to each other’s opposite traits.

Star Signs that are incompatible with Taureans

Taureans should avoid close relationships with Aries, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius.

Taurus and Aries have very different personalities. Taurus will not be hurried and will be turned off by the energetic enthusiasm of Aries, who tends to be a lot more impulsive. An affectionate affair may be fun, but in marriage Taurus may have to cope with occasional unfaithfullness from Aries.

Taurus may find it hard to tolerate with Leo‘s majesty. Leo is vivacious, Taurus can be practical. Leo is very giving. Taurus can be selfish. Leo can be hard to please, which may prove to be too much trouble in an affair and certainly makes the prospect of a long term relationship even less likely.

Taurus and Scorpio have some similarities. Taurus can be very stubborn when angry and Scorpio’s own anger is something of which all signs of the zodiac should wary – Scorpio really does have a sting in their tail! Because of their physical compatibility they may enjoy a tempestuous affair but marriage would only be possible with extreme tolerance on both sides.

As far as physical love is concerned Aquarius is too introspective to be too interested in Taurus. Aquarius is more mental and Taurus more passionate. A casual affair may work for a time but marriage less likely to be successful.

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How to woo a Taurean

Taureans are food and home loving people, so cooking at home will appeal. However, they will also enjoy a nice, quiet evening out where you can share great conversation and good wine.

Taureans love to laugh and have a great sense of humour, so if you do decide to go out, a comedy show, movie or club will suit them just fine.

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Aries Compatibility Chart

Which star signs make the best match for Aries?

Below you will find two Aries Compatibility tables, because for some starsigns what makes a good match for Arian Man, may not be so good for Arian Woman and vice versa.

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Aries Man CompatibilityWill it work?
Aries Man and Aries Woman CompatibilityCould go either way
Aries Man and Taurus Woman CompatibilityNot easy
Aries Man and Gemini Woman CompatibilityEasy
Aries Man and Cancer Woman CompatibilityNo!
Aries Man and Leo Woman CompatibilityEasy
Aries Man and Virgo Woman CompatibilityNo!
Aries Man and Libra Woman CompatibilityCould go either way
Aries Man and Scorpio Woman CompatibilityNot easy
Aries Man and Sagittarius Woman CompatibilityEasy
Aries Man and Capricorn Woman CompatibilityNot easy
Aries Man and Aquarius Woman CompatibilityEasy
Aries Man and Pisces Woman CompatibilityNot easy
Aries Woman CompatibilityWill it work?
Aries Woman and Aries Man CompatibilityCould go either way
Aries Woman and Taurus Man CompatibilityNot easy
Aries Woman and Gemini Man CompatibilityEasy
Aries Woman and Cancer Man CompatibilityNot easy
Aries Woman and Leo Man CompatibilityBrilliant!
Aries Woman and Virgo Man CompatibilityNo!
Aries Woman and Libra Man CompatibilityCould go either way
Aries Woman and Scorpio Man CompatibilityNot easy
Aries Woman and Sagittarius Man CompatibilityEasy
Aries Woman and Capricorn Man CompatibilityNot easy
Aries Woman and Aquarius Man CompatibilityEasy
Aries Woman and Pisces Man CompatibilityNo!

Are You Incompatible with Aries?

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Only an in-depth (and often very expensive) Astrological Analysis can enable us to properly assess our compatibility, with another Birth Sign.

All those planets whizzing around all the Zodiac Houses, makes for a very complicated situation and it is not just the position of the Sun that determines whether or not we are compatible with another Zodiac Sign. The positions of all the other Planets, plus the Moon, in both you and your partner’s birth charts also comes into play.

However, even if you have your Birth Chart interpreted by an expert Astrologer and it is concluded that you don’t have a hope in heck of making it work with an Aries, what if you decide to give it a go anyway?

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